I’m a big fan of Why Are People Into That? the queer and kinky podcast hosted by Tina Horn. Sometimes … More
Tag: protocol
Enid: Service submission, language and learning
There’s a lot written about service submission in power exchange relationships, such as this really informative primer by Tilari, and … More
Enid: Leather polishing homework for Cadi
Yesterday I was a bit miserable because I’m having ankle ligament trouble, and I was looking for something to do. … More
Cadi – A week of maintenance spankings and fighting the kinky-holiday blues.
Last week was a long one. Enid was busy at work, including a trip away to a training conference, and … More
Enid: My first collar
I was born in 1989. I was part of the lucky generation that was able to enjoy relatively inexpensive, private internet … More
Cadi: Ribena-gate
We spent Christmas week spreading ourselves pretty thinly between our two loving, but intense families. Although we spent a lot … More
Cadi: Her First Collar
We’d been talking about collars and leads for a long time before we got them. I’m not sure what it … More
Enid: Service submission & boot polishing
Just before Christmas, my Domme took me to see some gorgeous festive lights in a national park. The whole day … More
Enid: BDSM at Christmas time.
Christmas is rapidly approaching, and I’m not quite sure that I’m ready for it! My Domme and I are from … More