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Cadi: Developing Protocol

I’m a big fan of Why Are People Into That? the queer and kinky podcast hosted by Tina Horn. Sometimes … More

lifestyle, personal, podcast, protocol, relationships, ritual

Enid: Service submission, language and learning

There’s a lot written about service submission in power exchange relationships, such as this really informative primer by Tilari, and … More

bdsm, learning, lesbian, personal, protocol, relationships, service submission, travel

Enid: Leather polishing homework for Cadi

Yesterday I was a bit miserable because I’m having ankle ligament trouble, and I was looking for something to do. … More

bdsm, boot cleaning, collar, dr martens, kink, leather, lesbian, protocol, routine, strap on

Cadi – A week of maintenance spankings and fighting the kinky-holiday blues.

Last week was a long one. Enid was busy at work, including a trip away to a training conference, and … More

bdsm, bondage, bruises, fucking, kink, lesbian, maintenance spanking, mental health, personal, protocol, routine, spanking

Enid: My first collar

I was born in 1989. I was part of the lucky generation that was able to enjoy relatively inexpensive, private internet … More

community, firsts, learning, leather, personal, protocol, shopping

Cadi: Ribena-gate

We spent Christmas week spreading ourselves pretty thinly between our two loving, but intense families. Although we spent a lot … More

personal, protocol, silly

Cadi: Her First Collar

We’d been talking about collars and leads for a long time before we got them. I’m not sure what it … More

collar, firsts, leather, personal, protocol

Enid: Service submission & boot polishing

Just before Christmas, my Domme took me to see some gorgeous festive lights in a national park. The whole day … More

boot cleaning, dr martens, leather, mindfulness, personal, protocol, service submission

Enid: BDSM at Christmas time.

Christmas is rapidly approaching, and I’m not quite sure that I’m ready for it! My Domme and I are from … More

christmas, mental health, personal, protocol

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