Cadi: Developing Protocol

I’m a big fan of Why Are People Into That? the queer and kinky podcast hosted by Tina Horn. Sometimes … More

Enid: Service submission, language and learning

There’s a lot written about service submission in power exchange relationships, such as this really informative primer by Tilari, and … More

Yesterday I was a bit miserable because I’m having ankle ligament trouble, and I was looking for something to do. … More

Last week was a long one. Enid was busy at work, including a trip away to a training conference, and … More

I was born in 1989. I was part of the lucky generation that was able to enjoy relatively inexpensive, private internet … More

We spent Christmas week spreading ourselves pretty thinly between our two loving, but intense families. Although we spent a lot … More

We’d been talking about collars and leads for a long time before we got them. I’m not sure what it … More

Just before Christmas, my Domme took me to see some gorgeous festive lights in a national park. The whole day … More

Christmas is rapidly approaching, and I’m not quite sure that I’m ready for it! My Domme and I are from … More