These books were first published in 1994, and then revised in 2001. They’re widely considered to be classics, and for … More
Tag: learning
Enid: Collar making workshop
Today I went to my very first leather working course!! I was so excited! I’ve wanted to do it for … More
Enid: 2019 in Review
As expected, Christmas with the family was quite difficult for me. I was so happy to get back to our … More
Enid: Berlin holiday recap, the rope workshop.
Half-way through our holiday we went to a workshop on upper body rope ties for ‘womyn and queers.’ I found … More
Enid: Massage, and the power of touch and connection
A couple of months ago I did an intensive Swedish massage course. It was really hard work. I was aching … More
Enid: Service submission, language and learning
There’s a lot written about service submission in power exchange relationships, such as this really informative primer by Tilari, and … More
Enid: My birthday trip to a dungeon bed and breakfast
This is so late! But I really wanted to post about the amazing trip that my Mistress took me on … More
Enid: My first collar
I was born in 1989. I was part of the lucky generation that was able to enjoy relatively inexpensive, private internet … More
Enid: Improving rope skills and enjoying progress over perfection.
My mistress and I have been practicing rope bondage since approximately 2007, when we were both 19. I can’t remember … More
Enid: Perspectives on Healing and Personal Transformation Through BDSM (By Sara Elise & Daemonum X)
I really enjoyed this stunning essay. Every sentence is precious, and every photograph is beautiful. Daemonum X’s section is very … More