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Enid: Fucking the Babysitter

Cadi has been working from home still, and late last week she decided that she couldn’t be bothered with proper … More

age play, fisting, fucking, gender play, lesbian, little girl/mama, md/lg, role play, strap on, taboo, wlw

Enid: Halleloo I’m back bitches!

Nothing very much has changed since I posted last! I have forgotten our Twitter password and I’m taking advantage of … More

bdsm, community, events, hip harness, humiliation, kink, kink community, kinky and queer, little girl/mama, md/lg, mommy kink, negotiation, power exchange, queer, rope, shibari

Enid: Thoughts on kinky power exchange in times of crisis.

Firstly, how are you doing? Bit weird this, isn’t it!? We got back from Japan at the end of February, … More

24/7, age play, bladder control, cooking a, d/s, face slapping, face spitting, fantasies, femdom, food, lifestyle, love, md/lg, mommy kink, personal, power, power exchange, relationships, service submission, total power exchange, TPE, watersports

Enid: A fun online rope challenge we’ve started, from FuocoFet’s instagram.

We have been following the Rope Bondage: Skills and Drills for The Apocalypse challenge posted on IGTV by FuocoFet. She … More

bondage, fuocofet, hojo tie, kink community, online learning, other people's words, poetry, rope, rope bondage, rope bondage: skills and drills for the apocalypse, ropework, shibari, simple rope, single column tie, tits, tying

Enid: Lockdown in Blue

I’m not going to wank on about Coronavirus. There’s too much being said already; but I would like to stress … More

lingerie, personal, selfies, shopping

Enid: Hot dog sausages, a new ritual

As I’ve said in a few different blogs, I’m a good cook and I love cooking for Cadi as a … More

cooking, d/s, food, love, mama, mommy kink, not really about kink at all, nurturing domme, personal, power exchange, relationships

Enid: Hog ties & Migraines

This is a belated post, as straight after we had sex I had the worst migraine and sort of put … More

health, hog tie, lelo, migraine, post coital migraines, sex, shibari

Cadi: Developing Protocol

I’m a big fan of Why Are People Into That? the queer and kinky podcast hosted by Tina Horn. Sometimes … More

lifestyle, personal, podcast, protocol, relationships, ritual

Enid: The Bottoming Book & The Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy

These books were first published in 1994, and then revised in 2001. They’re widely considered to be classics, and for … More

books, learning, reading, recommendations

Enid: Happy birthday to me!

It’s my birthday today! Time for my contrary, independent, idealistic Aquarian self to shine! I shamelessly love birthdays, about the … More

birthday kink, fantasy, humiliation, kink, lesbian, personal, scene diary

Enid: Collar making workshop

Today I went to my very first leather working course!! I was so excited! I’ve wanted to do it for … More

creativity, harness, learning, leather, leatherwork, personal

Enid: Our first local munch

So we’ve been to nightclubs, markets, play parties, workshops and lectures. However, we’ve never been to a munch! There’s lots … More

bisexual, community, kink community, munch, new friends, personal

Enid: Is anyone else a giggler?

Yesterday I was due a spanking for being mischievous, running around and just generally being a bit naughty. Cadi was … More

being a toy, being used, blood, blood play, impact play, lotus stick, personal, quick sex, relationships, spanking, toys

Enid: 2019 in Review

As expected, Christmas with the family was quite difficult for me. I was so happy to get back to our … More

community, learning, personal, reading

Enid: The softness of a Mama/girl relationship

The Mama/little girl element of our relationship is definitely a sexual thing. That is evident when she’s fucking me hard … More

age play, dynamics, mama, mommy kink, personal, relationships, soft domme

Enid: Berlin holiday recap, the rope workshop.

Half-way through our holiday we went to a workshop on upper body rope ties for ‘womyn and queers.’ I found … More

berlin, creativity, disability, events, germany, learning, love, personal, relationships, sub drop, travel, when bdsm gets tough, workshops

Enid: Fat femmes are everything

femme, lingerie, selfies

(Enid) Berlin holiday recap; the cuddle party

Content warning: Brief mentions of historic sexual violence. So when we were planning our most recent trip to Berlin, I … More

community, cuddling, germany, healing, massage, mommy kink, nurturing domme, personal, sex, soft domme, survivor, travel

Cadi: Berlin holiday recap, the private party for women and non binary people

On the last night of our holiday, we went to a private party for women and non-binary people. Our invitation instructed … More

community, consent, events, germany, going out, intentionality, personal, relationships, sex, travel, workshops

Enid: Review, offthetongue strap on harnesses

Like many femmes, I’ve often struggled with strap-ons. I think Cadi and I bought our first one when we were … More

independent companies, lingerie, personal, queer, recommendations, review, sex, shopping, strap on, toys

Enid: Massage, and the power of touch and connection

A couple of months ago I did an intensive Swedish massage course. It was really hard work. I was aching … More

community, learning, massage, personal, queer

Enid: Better Bondage for Every Body by Evie Vane

We were in Berlin a couple of weeks ago (Cadi is working on some posts about the kinky events we … More

body image, bondage, books, personal, reading, review, shopping, travel

Enid: Service submission, language and learning

There’s a lot written about service submission in power exchange relationships, such as this really informative primer by Tilari, and … More

bdsm, learning, lesbian, personal, protocol, relationships, service submission, travel

Enid: Summer’s almost over, let cosy evenings in begin!

I’ve had a really good summer, but I’ve felt like I’ve been on a treadmill! I’ve had a lot of … More

bondage, impact play, personal, relationships, sex

Enid: A very lucky girl

After writing about my Pride harness, I wanted to highlight how fucking good Cadi’s looked this Pride season. My favourite … More

bi, fisting, flagging, pride, short post

Cadi: Reminiscing: Humiliation Play

I’m away with work, and will be for the rest of the week. It’s a job I do regularly and … More

books, games, humilation, personal, princess kali, reading, recommendations, scene diary

Enid: Pride, and wearing rope in public

Pride month may be over in the US, but in the UK it’s barely started. I recently went to a … More

going out, harness, jute, lesbian, pride, rope, ropework, simple rope

Cadi: Sex worker role-play

During the same car journey that Enid told me that she wanted to try watersports, she also told me that … More

cliche, fantasies, hotel, lesbian, love, role play, sex, sex work

Enid: Eczema, sex and me.

CN: Brief mention of sexual violence. Since 2012 I’ve suffered with severe pompholyx eczema. It’s a more uncommon type of … More

books, disability, eczema, lesbian, love, mental health, personal, ropework, sexual violence, shibari, survivor, toys, trauma

Enid: Subject To Change (trans poetry and conversation)

This is a brilliant anthology from Sibling Rivalry Press.  I love the format; each poet gets space for five or six … More

personal, poetry, reading

Enid: Fingers, by tatiana de la tierra

Para las duras: Una fenomonologia lesbiana / For the Hard Ones: A Lesbian Phenomenology was a lucky holiday bookshop find, from … More

fisting, personal, poetry

Enid: Toy review, leather flogger from Mr B’s, Berlin.

Cadi and I have a holiday tradition of buying a new favourite toy every time we go abroad, starting with … More

bdsm, berlin, chronic pain, flogger, germany, impact play, kink, leather, lesbian, personal, review, shopping, toys, travel

Enid: Toy review, lotus stick by Trussed UK

Like our heavy duty spanking loop from The Kink Emporium, I picked this little baby up at the London Alternative … More

bdsm, blood play, impact play, independent companies, london, shopping

Enid: A true story about the really hot guy we met in Berlin

There’s a boy I know, he’s the one I dream of, looks into my eyes, takes me to the clouds … More

berlin, clubs, community, events, fucking, germany, impact play, men, personal, public play, review, travel

Enid: Toy review, heart shaped paddle and matching cuffs from Sh! Women’s Erotic Emporium, London.

Sh! is legendary in the UK, particularly with feminists, kinky people, women, and non binary people. It’s an independent, women-led … More

bdsm, femme, femme for femme, impact play, independent companies, kink, lesbian, london, paddles, personal, shopping, spanking

Enid: My birthday trip to a dungeon bed and breakfast

This is so late! But I really wanted to post about the amazing trip that my Mistress took me on … More

bondage, community, dildos, firsts, learning, leather, periods, personal

Enid: Leather polishing homework for Cadi

Yesterday I was a bit miserable because I’m having ankle ligament trouble, and I was looking for something to do. … More

bdsm, boot cleaning, collar, dr martens, kink, leather, lesbian, protocol, routine, strap on

Happy Mother’s Day, Cadi! (An Exploration in Mommy Kink.)

So today is Mothering Sunday in the UK, and it seemed like a convenient time to talk about our recent … More

bdsm, firsts, fisting, kink, lesbian, love, mama, mommy kink, personal, podcast, stigma, taboo

Cadi – A week of maintenance spankings and fighting the kinky-holiday blues.

Last week was a long one. Enid was busy at work, including a trip away to a training conference, and … More

bdsm, bondage, bruises, fucking, kink, lesbian, maintenance spanking, mental health, personal, protocol, routine, spanking

Enid: My experiences with watersports, and piss swallowing

I grew up in a small town and when I was young my mum and I used to take a … More

bdsm, firsts, fucking, humiliation, kink, lesbian, personal, piss, pissqueen, service submission, watersports

Enid: I’m so excited for my birthday trip to a BDSM bed & breakfast!

  For my 30th I asked Cadi for a trip away. We’re usually city break people so I was expecting … More

independent companies, personal, shopping

Enid: Toy review, heavy duty spanking loop by The Kink Emporium.

This toy is made by UK-based, independent company The Kink Emporium. I fell in love with it at the London Alternative … More

fucking, independent companies, london, personal, review, toys

Enid: My first collar

I was born in 1989. I was part of the lucky generation that was able to enjoy relatively inexpensive, private internet … More

community, firsts, learning, leather, personal, protocol, shopping

Cadi: Ribena-gate

We spent Christmas week spreading ourselves pretty thinly between our two loving, but intense families. Although we spent a lot … More

personal, protocol, silly

Enid: Sexy Saturday!

I’m currently writing this from a desk at Cadi’s office. It’s Sunday and she’s had to come into work, so … More

bdsm, daddy, daddy kink, dildos, femdom, fucking, humiliation, kink, leather, lesbian, mommy kink, personal, strap on

Cadi: Her First Collar

We’d been talking about collars and leads for a long time before we got them. I’m not sure what it … More

collar, firsts, leather, personal, protocol

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