Sh! is legendary in the UK, particularly with feminists, kinky people, women, and non binary people. It’s an independent, women-led…
Enid: Breasts like Martinis by Jill McDonough
Last year when I was going through a manic period I wrote a 120k novel manuscript set in Boston and…
Enid: My birthday trip to a dungeon bed and breakfast
This is so late! But I really wanted to post about the amazing trip that my Mistress took me on…
Enid: Leather polishing homework for Cadi
Yesterday I was a bit miserable because I’m having ankle ligament trouble, and I was looking for something to do.…
Happy Mother’s Day, Cadi! (An Exploration in Mommy Kink.)
So today is Mothering Sunday in the UK, and it seemed like a convenient time to talk about our recent…
Enid: Psoriasis by Sarah Maguire.
I read (and have written) quite a lot of erotica and something that often works for me is a snippet…
Cadi – A week of maintenance spankings and fighting the kinky-holiday blues.
Last week was a long one. Enid was busy at work, including a trip away to a training conference, and…
Enid: My experiences with watersports, and piss swallowing
I grew up in a small town and, as a young girl, my mum and I used to take a…
Enid: [even if you fuck me all vanilla in] by Richard Scott
I picked up Soho by Richard Scott at Gay’s The Word bookshop in London, and fell in love immediately. I…
Enid: Using pilates to improve my BDSM practice.
My workplace has recently started offering subsidized Pilates lessons. I was really excited about getting involved because I have always…
Enid: I’m so excited for my birthday trip to a BDSM bed & breakfast!
For my 30th I asked Cadi for a trip away. We’re usually city break people so I was expecting…
Enid: Toy review, heavy duty spanking loop by The Kink Emporium.
This toy is made by UK-based, independent company The Kink Emporium. I fell in love with it at the London Alternative…
Enid: Warming Her Pearls by Carol Ann Duffy.
Everything about this poem is sensual and erotic. I’ve always wanted to be in service to a beautiful femme, and…
Enid: My first collar
I was born in 1989. I was part of the lucky generation that was able to enjoy relatively inexpensive, private internet…
Cadi: Ribena-gate
We spent Christmas week spreading ourselves pretty thinly between our two loving, but intense families. Although we spent a lot…
Enid: Sexy Saturday!
I’m currently writing this from a desk at Cadi’s office. It’s Sunday and she’s had to come into work, so…
Cadi: Her First Collar
We’d been talking about collars and leads for a long time before we got them. I’m not sure what it…
Enid: Toy review, “Thumper” from Purple Passion/DV8 in NYC
This lovely lady is a present that Cadi and I bought ourselves when we were on honeymoon in New York…
Cadi: London Alternative Market – 6/1/19
This weekend we were in London visiting some friends that we didn’t manage to see over Christmas. We realised that…
Enid: This is not a sex toy
It’s a very (very) long wooden spoon, bought for me by my mother on a trip to South Africa. I’ve…
Enid: Improving rope skills and enjoying progress over perfection.
My mistress and I have been practicing rope bondage since approximately 2007, when we were both 19. I can’t remember…
Enid: Service submission & boot polishing
Just before Christmas, my Domme took me to see some gorgeous festive lights in a national park. The whole day…
Enid: To me, love me
Last week a friend and I decided to go to a paint-your-own pottery place for a bit of a chat…
Enid: Perspectives on Healing and Personal Transformation Through BDSM (By Sara Elise & Daemonum X)
I really enjoyed this stunning essay. Every sentence is precious, and every photograph is beautiful. Daemonum X’s section is very…
Enid: An alternative advent calendar
Lots of companies seemed to be offering really good deals on sex toy advent calendars this Christmas! My Domme and…
Enid: Number One Laboratory
I follow a number of sex toy manufacturers on Insta, and today I spotted this geode crystal style dildo in…
Enid: BDSM at Christmas time.
Christmas is rapidly approaching, and I’m not quite sure that I’m ready for it! My Domme and I are from…
